Hey Chicagoland Singles!
As Thanksgiving week approaches, a whole lineup of singles events is waiting for you.
Sure, it’s the season for planning holiday travel, but it might be worth squeezing in a singles event or two before you pack your bags.
Over the next couple of weeks, the city is buzzing with everything from classic speed dating and mixers to scavenger hunts, group runs, puppy-petting socials, and even golf-swing nights. If any of those are your thing, your future boo might be standing right there beside you.
Later this month and into December, you’ll also start seeing events centered around volunteering, salsa nights, and even holiday gift-wrapping for kids. Variety is the name of the game.
And if you’re wondering how to naturally start conversations at activty-based events, don’t worry. I’ve gathered expert tips to help with exactly that. Check out this week’s Tip of the Week below!
So with that being said, let’s move onto the events!
Singles Events Happening This Week
Wednesday, November 12
The Shaka Club | Fulton Market Singles: Late 20s/30s Happy Hour (Ages Late 20s–30s) — November 12 @7:00 PM • Punch Bowl Social, 310 N Green St, Chicago
CitySwoon | Speed Dating Chicago | CitySwoon® | 38-52 years | at Carnivale (Ages 38–52) — November 12 @ 7:30 PM • Carnivale, Chicago
MyCheekyGayDate | Speed Dating in Chicago | Fancy a Go? | Gay Men Singles Event (Ages 22–44) — November 12 @ 8:00 PM • Tabu, Chicago
Thursday, November 13
Chicago First Dates | Singles Ages 20s & 30s - In-Person Speed Dating (Ages Women 24–38, Men 25–39) — November 13 @ 7:00 PM • Moretti's Ristorante & Pizzeria - Edison Park, Chicago
Shuffle Dating | 11/13 (Thursday) @ 7:00p (Ages 25–32) — November 13 @ 7:00 PM • The Albion Manor, Chicago
Thursday Dating | Thursday | Singles Happy Hour | Blind Barber, West Loop — November 13 @ 5:00 PM • Blind Barber, Chicago
Friday, November 14
Break The Ice Social Events LLC | Singles Social Mixer Naperville Spartan Ale House — November 14 @ 6:30 PM • Spartan Ale House, Naperville
Saturday, November 15
Jigsaw Dating | Coffee Shop Speed Dating 40+, November 15th - Chicago (Ages 40+) — November 15 @ 3:00 PM • The Avondale Coffee Club, Chicago
Tantra Speed Date | Tantra Speed Date® – Chicago (Meet Singles Speed Dating) — November 15 @ 5:30 PM • Moksha Yoga Center, Wicker Park
Jigsaw Dating | Singles Happy Hour 40+, November 15th - Chicago (Ages 40+) — November 15 @ 7:00 PM • Joy District, Chicago
Meet IRL | The Great Singles Scavenger Hunt! *Hetero Women Sold Out! |Meet IRL x Boppn — November 15 @ 3:00 PM • The Dawson, Chicago
The Dinner App | ONLY SINGLE, JUST A SUNSET RUN/CHICAGO — November 15 @ 7:00 PM • Millennium Monument, Chicago
Single N Minglin LLC | Single N Minglin "Speed Dating" PRIDE Edition (for LGBTQ individuals) — November 15 @ 9:00 PM • Chicago
MyCheekyDate | Saturday Night Speed Dating @ Tabu — Chicago (Ages 25–39) (Ages 25–39) — November 15 @ 7:30 PM • Tabu, Chicago
Sunday, November 16
Meet IRL | Meet IRL | Curated Speed Dating at Half Acre Beer Co | 30s + early 40s — November 16 @ 11:00 AM • Half Acre Beer Co, Chicago
Shuffle Dating | 11/16 (Sunday) @ 4:00p (Ages 27–34) — November 16 @ 4:00 PM • The Dandy Crown, Chicago
Break The Ice Social Events LLC | Singles Social Mixer Oak Lawn Cooper's Hawk — November 16 @ 1:00 PM • Cooper’s Hawk Winery & Restaurant, Oak Lawn
Break The Ice Social Events LLC | Singles Social Mixer Oak Park Cooper's Hawk — November 16 @ 6:00 PM • Cooper's Hawk Winery & Restaurant- Oak Park, IL, Oak Park
MyCheekyDate | Speed Dating @ Tabu — Chicago (Ages 36–48) (Ages 36–48) — November 16 @ 6:00 PM • Tabu, Chicago
Events Next Week:
The City Social | Chicago Social Hour: Speed Dating For Ages 25-35 (Ages 25–35) — November 17 @ 6:30 PM • Barcocina Lakeview, Chicago
Meet IRL | Meet IRL | Curated Speed Dating at Midwest Coast | late 20s + 30s — November 18 @ 6:30 PM • Midwest Coast Brewing Company, Chicago
Shuffle Dating | 11/18 (Tuesday) @ 7:00p (Ages 32–42) — November 18 @ 7:00 PM • Navigator Taproom, Chicago
Shuffle Dating | 11/19 (Wednesday) @ 6:30p (Ages 41–53) — November 19 @ 6:30 PM • Park & Oak (Glen Ellyn), Glen Ellyn
Shuffle Dating | 11/19 (Wednesday) @ 7:30p (Ages 30–40) — November 19 @ 7:30 PM • District Brew Yards, Chicago
MyCheekyDate | Speed Dating @ Untitled Supper Club — Chicago (Ages 24–36) (Ages 24–36) — November 20 @ 7:00 PM • Untitled Supper Club, Chicago
CitySwoon | Speed Dating Chicago | CitySwoon® | 32-44 years | at Tre Denari (Ages 32–44) — November 20 @ 8:00 PM • Tre Denari, Chicago
Chicago First Dates | Singles Ages 30s & 40s - In-Person Speed Dating (Ages Women 33–45, Men 35–47) — November 20 @ 7:00 PM • Moretti's Ristorante & Pizzeria - Edison Park, Chicago
Intelligent Singles Network | Intelligent Singles Mixer in Chicago! — November 20 @ 7:00 PM • Bar Moxy, Chicago
Break The Ice Social Events LLC | Break The Ice Social Events Libertyville Mickey Finn's — November 21 @ 6:30 PM • Mickey Finn's Brewery, Libertyville
The Shaka Club | West Town Singles: Late 30s/40s Happy Hour (Ages Late 30s–40s) — November 21 @7:30 PM • Barcocina West Town, Chicago
Thursday Dating | Friday | Singles Golf Night | 5 Iron, River North — November 21 @ 7:30 PM • Five Iron Golf, Chicago
CitySwoon | Speed Dating Chicago | CitySwoon® | 40-55 years | at Bar Moxy (Ages 40–55) — November 22 @ 6:00 PM • Bar Moxy, Chicago
Meet IRL | Meet IRL x Pup Social: Singles Mixer *Women's tix sold out! — November 22 @ 2:00 PM • Pup Social, Chicago
Jigsaw Dating | Coffee Shop Speed Dating, November 22nd - Chicago (Ages 25–45+) — November 22 @ 3:00 PM • Coffee Shop Speed Dating, November 22nd - Chicago, Chicago
Jigsaw Dating | Singles Happy Hour, November 22nd - Chicago (Ages 25–45+) — November 22 @ 7:00 PM • Big Mini Putt Club, Chicago
Break The Ice Social Events LLC | Break The Ice Social Events Singles Social Mixer Schaumburg Westwood Tavern — November 22 @ 6:30 PM • Westwood Tavern, Schaumburg
Chicago First Dates | Single Professionals, 20s & 30s - Westmont, IL — November 23 @ 5:00 PM • Neat Kitchen & Bar - Westmont, Westmont
MyCheekyDate | Speed Dating @ Recess — Chicago (Ages 32–44) (Ages 32–44) — November 23 @ 6:00 PM • Recess, Chicago
Tip of the Week:
This week’s Tip: Conversation-Starters at Specific Activity-Based Singles Events (Where’s Your Boo Edition)
Apart from speed dating and singles mixers, we have a variety of events the next month. So I’ve listed conversation-starters for each of these types of events. And yes, they’re a little cheesy and absolutely the kind of thing your parents would say. But this is ‘Where’s Your Boo?’. Being cheesy is kind of our unofficial love language.
1. Scavenger Hunts
“Are you a ‘follow the map’ person or a ‘chaotic energy is my compass’ person?”
“I feel like we’d solve these 10 times faster together. Want to form an elite squad of two?”
2. Running Events
“Did you wake up excited for this run or were you tricked by a very enthusiastic friend?”
“Mind if I jog next to you? My motivation improves by 300 percent when I have company.”
3. Puppy Social Events
“Which dog here is definitely the CEO of this event?”
“I’m trying to figure out which dog matches my energy. Any recommendations?”
4. Golf / Swinging Events
“How long have you been playing? Your swing says ‘experienced,’ mine says ‘please look away.’”
“Want to do a mini-challenge? Loser owes the winner a drink… or bragging rights.”
5. Volunteering Events
“Do you volunteer a lot or are you here for the moral high ground like me?”
“Want to team up on this task? Worst case, we bond over doing it wrong together.”
6. Salsa Dancing
“Have you danced before or are you also relying on pure confidence and vibes?”
“If you need a partner for the next round, I promise not to step on your feet… much.”
7. Gift-Wrapping Events
“On a scale of 1 to 10, how chaotic are your wrapping skills? I’m hovering around a 3.5.”
“Want to divide and conquer? You fold, I’ll cut, and we’ll both pretend we’re professionals.”
You don’t have to use any of these word-for-word. The point is to break the ice in a way that matches the activity. If it gets a laugh or even a smile, you’re already winning.
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And a Sneak Peek into a Few Events Coming Up in the following weeks:
The Feels | The Feels Chicago, edition 5: a mindful singles event— November 24 @ 6:30–9:30 PM • Chicago
Meet IRL | Meet IRL | Singles Volunteer Evening *Women's tix sold out! | Ages 35+ (Ages 35+) — November 25 @ 6:00 PM • The Parlor, Chicago
SUM OF FIVE DATING | Chicago's Hottest Singles Mixer 25+ (Ages 25+) — November 26 @ 7:00 PM • Joy District, Chicago
MyCheekyGayDate | Speed Dating in Chicago | Fancy a Go? | Gay Men Singles Event (Ages 22–44) — November 26 @ 8:00 PM • Tabu, Chicago
Shuffle Dating | 11/26 (Wednesday) @ 6:30p (Ages 44–57) — November 26 @ 6:30 PM • Park & Oak, Glen Ellyn
Salsa For Singles | By Salsa For Singles — November 30 @ 7:30 PM • Taco Maya, Chicago
ThrowbackDating | Singles In Service: Holiday Gift Wrapping with Kids Above All — December 7 @ 1:00 PM • Kids Above All's Better Life Distribution Center, East Oakton Street Des Plaines
Christian Speed Dating and Christmas Tea (ages 21-39 yrs) | Him & Her Vintage (Ages 21–39) — December 13 @ 1:00 PM • Him & Her Vintage, Chicago
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That’s it for this week.
And as always, thank you for reading another edition of Where’s Your Boo?. Your boo is waiting for you. So get out there, and let us know how it goes!
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